Re: Wuv, Twue Wuv -- and Mawwiage!
Posted: May 23, 2016 8:25 am
I am finding it difficult to move on. I best start by telling the whole story. Well, part of it. I met him through a friend at a games night. We soon started dating. Everything was great, we never had any fights. As embarrassing as it is to say I think I fell in love or maybe I was in love with the idea. Suddenly, one day he inboxed me (not even telling me in person) that he planned to move overseas and that we could carry on the relationship as a casual thing but he would move. To say I was shocked is an underestimate. It is very upsetting to think that "well she is alright for now". The fact that it came suddenly is what upset me the most. If I had seen it coming I could have prepared myself.
That was three weeks ago. I said there was no point continuing the relationship and I didn't want to if that is how he felt. Though those months were the happiest I have ever been in my life. Now it feels like something is missing. Like I have to keep going on. Other problems have built up aswell, I am working around 50 hour weeks. This is two jobs which add up to 20 hours and 30 hours of classes, study and assignments. A sibling has had a breakdown and my health isn't great. Ever since I got salmonella poisoning earlier this year I have had trouble with acid reflux which has contributed to the development of ulcers in my mouth. To add this on going issue with Identity theft. So someone has started a phone contract under my name using my license (which i can't think how they got since my license is always on me).
The Build up of all these problems has made dealing with the first situation I mentioned harder. Does anyone have any ideas of how to cope? get through and move on?
That was three weeks ago. I said there was no point continuing the relationship and I didn't want to if that is how he felt. Though those months were the happiest I have ever been in my life. Now it feels like something is missing. Like I have to keep going on. Other problems have built up aswell, I am working around 50 hour weeks. This is two jobs which add up to 20 hours and 30 hours of classes, study and assignments. A sibling has had a breakdown and my health isn't great. Ever since I got salmonella poisoning earlier this year I have had trouble with acid reflux which has contributed to the development of ulcers in my mouth. To add this on going issue with Identity theft. So someone has started a phone contract under my name using my license (which i can't think how they got since my license is always on me).
The Build up of all these problems has made dealing with the first situation I mentioned harder. Does anyone have any ideas of how to cope? get through and move on?